We suggest our first-time surrogates request a base compensation of $50,000, but ultimately the amount you request is your decision. Experienced surrogates typically receive $55,000 or more. If a surrogate is carrying multiples, she can expect to receive an additional $15,000 per baby. A monthly allowance and housekeeping allowance, which are standard, can add another $5,000 in reimbursements. Other, more variable amounts may include reimbursement for child care and lost wages if you are placed on bed rest or undergo a caesarean section or other invasive procedure.

The first step is blood and urine tests for you and your spouse or partner. These are done by the IVF physician, who also performs a pelvic exam, ultrasound and consultation to explain the IVF process in detail. After the legal contracts are signed the IVF process continues. You’re given medications and/or injections and receive specific instructions regarding the preparation of your body for a successful embryo transfer.

An agreed-upon number of embryos are placed in your uterus for implantation. This is usually a quick and painless procedure. You may be asked to rest for a few days following the transfer. Bright Futures Families only supports Single Embryo Transfers at this time.

A pregnancy test is conducted via a blood draw 10-12 days after the transfer. Once you’re pregnant, you stay on your medications to ensure that the pregnancy grows. About six weeks after conception, a heartbeat is confirmed via ultrasound and you begin receiving your base compensation. Near the end of the first trimester when the pregnancy is deemed stable, the fertility doctor releases you to your OB/GYN for prenatal care and regular checkups.

We can’t make promises but typically surrogates are matched with intended parents within 2-3 months of being cleared to be part of our program. Because the psychological and initial medical screenings are part of the intake process, things move rather quickly and we can get to legal agreements in another 1-2 months. The embryo transfer occurs 4-6 weeks after the legal contracts are completed. Pregnancy happens (hopefully on the first IVF attempt). Provided there are no complications, you deliver the baby nine months later.

The birth of the baby is one of the most exciting and rewarding steps of the entire surrogacy process. Most surrogates involve the intended parents in the labor and delivery process and celebrate with them as they welcome their new baby into the world. The intended parents assume full parental rights at birth. You may experience a mix of emotions after the birth, including excitement, pride and satisfaction. If you find yourself experiencing any difficult feelings, we encourage you to seek counseling and support services from Bright Futures Families. The connection you shared with the intended parents and the child will always be one of the most meaningful experiences in your life.