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Can I work with BFF if I want to work with intended parents I already know?
The main point is that clients can work with Brightff.com families even if they already know their gestational carrier or intended parents.
Jenn explained the Indy Match program allows independent matches while still providing full agency support from screening through birth.
The agency handles all medical screening for the carrier just like in the full-service program.
Support continues from the moment of matching until after the baby’s birth.
Monthly agency fees start only after medical records are approved by the clinic.
This approach reduces financial risk for intended parents if records are not approved.
Can I travel after the birth of the surrogate baby?
What surrogates should know about travel after delivery.
Tips For Surrogates: Pumping Breastmilk for Intended Parents
Pumping as a surrogate is an incredibly generous and thoughtful gift to the baby and their (no longer intended – actual!) parents. Whether you're pumping for a short time postpartum or planning an extended pumping journey, here are some helpful tips and guidance specifically for surrogates.
What are some things a surrogate or intended parents should be asking during a match meeting?
Key questions to ask during a surrogacy match meeting for a strong partnership.
What costs are involved in surrogacy process that parents might not expect?
A breakdown of commonly overlooked costs in the surrogacy journey.
Does BFF surrogacy offer postpartum counseling?
An overview of postpartum counseling and emotional support for surrogates.
What if the parents do not allow me to see the baby after the birth, after saying they would? Is that it? How do surrogates deal with the disappointment and grief?
A thoughtful conversation about post-birth emotions, boundaries, and healing for surrogates.
Why do gestational surrogates need to give themselves shots in order to get pregnant?
A clear explanation of why injections are part of the IVF process for gestational surrogates.
What type of restrictions or prohibited items happen for a gestational carrier during the surrogacy process?
Just like any pregnancy, restrictions are to be expected. What restrictions can surrogates expect that differ from their own pregnancies? Callie has the answer.
Can I apply to be a gestational carrier if I am currently breastfeeding my child?
In this Ask a Surrogacy Expert video, Bright Futures Families team member Janelle shares whether potential gestational carriers can apply to become a surrogate through our surrogacy agency if they are currently breastfeeding their own children.
What travel restrictions are typically in the legal contract for a surrogacy journey, and why?
Travel rules are a standard part of a gestational carrier contract. These limits help keep the GC and baby safe, and they help avoid legal complications around where parentage orders can be filed. Here’s what to expect — and why these guidelines are in place.
Do I have to be in a relationship, or can I be single when acting as a surrogate?
Thinking about becoming a surrogate but not currently in a relationship? Here’s what agencies and clinics look for — and how strong support is the key, no matter your relationship status.
Will I have to travel a lot as a gestational carrier?
Curious how often you’ll be traveling as a surrogate? Here’s what you can expect — and what usually stays local.
Where should the pre-birth order (PBO) be done?
Confused about PBO filing? Here’s how your legal team determines the right state to establish parentage before delivery, and when during the journey it is done.
Do both attorneys need to be in the state the gestational carrier resides? What if I have an attorney I am working with that is not licensed in that state?
Unsure if both attorneys must be local? Here’s how legal representation works when lawyers are licensed in different states — and why GC-state knowledge matters.
Can we save money by sharing an attorney between the gestational carrier (GC) and the intended parents (IPs)?
Can you share an attorney in surrogacy to cut costs? In this Ask a Surrogacy Expert video, we break down why each party needs their own legal advocate — and how it benefits the entire journey.
What can intended parents do with their leftover frozen embryos?
Not sure what to do with leftover frozen embryos? You’re not alone. In this Ask a Surrogacy Expert video, we explain your options and help you navigate this important decision with confidence and care.
What does “Base Fee” or “Base Compensation” really mean in a surrogacy arrangement?
What does “Base Fee” or “Base Compensation” really mean in a surrogacy arrangement?